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Screens and Your Child · $24.99
SCREENS · 2–12 Years
Screens and Your Child
A research-grounded guide to screens, limits, and raising kids in a digital world.
$24.99
What this guide solves
My child melts down every time I try to turn off a screen.
We walk you through why transitions are so hard neurologically and give you a calm, repeatable routine that makes screen-off moments manageable for both of you.
I don't know how much screen time is actually too much for my child's age.
We break down the current research and age-based guidelines clearly, so you can set limits that are grounded in evidence rather than guilt or guesswork.
I feel like screens have taken over our home but I don't know where to start.
The guide gives you a practical week-by-week reset plan with small, realistic changes that shift the dynamic at home without triggering a family war.
I've tried setting limits before and it never sticks.
We look at why limits fail and how to build ones that actually hold, through structure, consistency, and strategies your child can understand and accept.
I want to know what the research actually says, not just what to feel guilty about.
Every recommendation in this guide is grounded in peer-reviewed research. We tell you what the science actually shows and where the evidence is still evolving.
My child's sleep is being affected and I think screens are part of it.
We cover the specific ways screens disrupt sleep in children and give you an evening wind-down approach that protects sleep without a bedtime battle.
Inside the guide
Why this guide exists
p. 3
What the research shows
p. 4
Why screens are so hard to compete with
p. 7
Age-by-age guidelines
p. 9
A five-step framework for reducing screen time
p. 10
Practical strategies for everyday moments
p. 12
Handling resistance and tantrums
p. 13
Quality matters too: rethinking good screen time
p. 15
Common mistakes to avoid
p. 16
Your week-by-week action plan
p. 17
Common questions
No. This guide does not argue that screens are inherently harmful or that families should ban them. It explains what the research actually shows, including where the evidence is strong, where it is mixed, and how to make choices that work for your family.
Yes. The guide covers ages zero to seventeen, with age-by-age guidelines and specific sections on adolescent social media use, sleep, and how to negotiate limits with older children.
The guide addresses this directly. Sudden cuts almost always fail. The five-step framework is built around gradual change, environment redesign, and systems that hold up when you are tired, which is when most limits collapse.
Yes. The guide covers social media use in adolescents, including what the research says about the link between social media and mental health, and practical approaches for the bedroom and bedtime.
It is an instant digital download. You will receive a PDF you can read on any device or print at home.
About the research
Every claim in this guide is sourced to a peer-reviewed study or clinical guideline. References are listed in full at the end of the guide.